| Popis: |
Starting high school is hard. One ninth grader recently described seeing her old middle school friends walk by her in the hallway “without a hi or a smile.” “I felt invisible,” she told me. To kids, minor incidents like this can seem like a sign of more bad things to come. As another teen said to me: “It makes me feel like I won't have any friends at my high school reunion.” As a scientist, I want to help kids stay optimistic during tough transitions in life. We've learned that if kids think that you can't change the kind of person you are—a “bully” or a “victim,” a “good” person or a “bad” one—then they believe small difficulties predict the rest of their life. |
