Seeing bad does good: Relational benefits of accuracy regarding partners’ negative moods

Autor: Maryhope Howland, Gal Lazarus, Eshkol Rafaeli, Reuma Gadassi, Ayelet Boussi
Rok vydání: 2017
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Zdroj: Motivation and Emotion. 41:353-369
ISSN: 1573-6644
0146-7239
DOI: 10.1007/s11031-017-9614-x
Popis: When would greater empathic accuracy (EA) be an asset and when would it not? In two studies of romantic couples (both employing daily diaries, the second also involving a lab-based video-recall paradigm), we explored the associations between EA (at the day-level, person-level, and in the lab) and an important relationship outcome: negative relationship feelings. Our results show that accuracy is tied more strongly to this relational outcome when negative (vs. positive) moods are the target of empathic judgments. The association between accuracy and (better) feelings was true for both perceivers and targets. Importantly, these associations emerged only in diary-based accuracy scores, and not in the lab-based ones. These results further support the importance of everyday empathic accuracy. They also highlight the need to consider such accuracy as multi-faceted, and in particular, to recognize the differential role of attending to our partners’ negative versus positive moods in daily life.
Databáze: OpenAIRE